FWIW, it's up to you to get creative and refuel the excitement with some thought-provoking questions. This is the only way you'll get to know each other on a deeper, more intimate level.
Here are 20 expert-approved topics to bring up with your significant other—and be prepared to bring your thoughts to the table on these, too:. If you feel like your talks have grown stale, what could spark the passion more than a convo about passion? When one of you makes it big, it'll be helpful to know where each of you envision your perpetual staycation together: A beachside cottage in Maui, a chic apartment in Paris, or a slope-side cabin in Wyoming.
Discussing the things that fill you with pride is good because it's "positive and allows the person to speak freely and share," explains dating and relationship expert Lisa Concepcion. The best convo topics are open-ended. The cringe-worthy first kiss story, which involves braces and a bloody lip, will give you two a good laugh together. It's tit-for-tat, however, so be prepared to dish out your most cringe-worthy tale once bae shares theirs. Here, you can both dream big and share your dreams with each other.
It's a bonding opportunity and a total conversation win. Free money? Talk about a fun concept! Real talk: Your boyfriend probably doesn't have a clue which of the five love languages he embodies.
By Contributor. Do you want to have children? How long was your longest relationship? Why did it end? Have you ever been engaged or married? Do you ever want to get married? Have you ever lived with a partner?
How important is religion or spirituality to you? How do you feel about gay rights? Do you think money can buy happiness? What is your dream job? What one thing do you want to accomplish in your life? What accomplishment are you most proud of? What are you afraid of? When was the last time you voted? How would you describe your relationship with your family? Do you have a best friend?
What is your love language? Are you an introvert those who recharge by being alone or an extrovert those who feel energized from being around other people? Do you hold grudges? Have you ever struggled with addiction? Have you ever been in an emotionally or physically abusive relationship? Do you think a relationship can come back from cheating? Who was your role model growing up? When you were a kid, what career did you want to have?
Did you go to summer camp? What is your idea of a perfect Sunday afternoon? What is your favorite holiday? What is the best present you've ever received? What did you and your friends do for fun in middle school? Did you have any pets growing up? What is your happiest childhood memory? If you could cook any dish perfectly, what would you choose? When you're having a bad day, what makes you feel better? At an amusement park, what ride do you just have to go on? What toy did you always want as a kid, but no one ever bought for you?
Did you ever sleep with stuffed animals? What sound do you love? What are your favorite scents? What candy do you hate? What is your favorite karaoke song? What was your favorite thing to do during recess? What is your favorite thing to do on a rainy day? What is the weirdest reason you ever broke up with someone? When was the time you laughed the hardest? If you could listen to only one song for the rest of your life, what song would you choose?
What celebrities have you met? What word do you hate? What is your pop culture guilty pleasure? What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you? What is the weirdest thing you've ever bought? Have you ever been to a palm reader? Who would you rather hire: a personal trainer, a personal chef, or a housekeeper?
What would you do if you could be a woman for a day? What is the one movie you've seen more times than you can count? What is your most beautiful memory so far? How different are you from five years ago? What is the story about you that people just love to share? What was your favorite TV show when you were a kid? Who did you idolize when you were a kid? What is the most humiliating moment from your life?
When have you felt the most proud of yourself? Who was your favorite band growing up? What would you say is the best and worst thing about having you as a boyfriend? How do you view the role of a wife? Tell me one thing a woman can do to become more attractive excluding change her appearance. What did you learn about relationships from your parents? Tell me about the couple you know who has the healthiest relationship. Are you willing to go to couples therapy if things derail in a serious relationship?
What do you like and dislike most about being in a long-term relationship? Excluding cheating, what is an absolute relationship-ending incident for you? Where have your ideas of the ideal relationship come from? What have you learned from past relationships? How do you think couples should manage sharing the household chores? What things do you think cause most couples to grow apart and split up? How would your exes describe you today if asked? How would you react if you found out I accidentally got pregnant?
Are you willing to change diapers? Allllll diapers? City or country boy? And hey, you might actually end up enjoying them yourself even more than him! After all, we all want to share our passions and good memories with someone else.
To have someone understand what really brightens our day, gets us through tough moments. Remember that your late night conversations are a channel to express your feelings too.
There are many topics to tackle out there, whether deep or just silly fun. These should keep you busy for a while, but if you want even more topics to discuss, check out our article about questions to ask when in a relationship. And for even more quality conversations handled in a fun way, check out our replayable card game for couples, Better Topics.
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